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“This is by far the most effective forgiveness book I have ever read. I give away many copies every week to help those struggling to forgive!”
— Barbara Solis, Pastor of Family Counseling at Peoples Church in Fresno, CA, the largest megachurch in Central California
Welcome! I am so excited to have this opportunity to introduce myself, Dr. Allen Gee, and my new book, The Language of Deep Forgiveness: Break Free from Struggling to Accept the Unacceptable, which can be of immense benefit to your church and ministry. First, let me tell you a little about myself. I’m a clinical psychologist, spiritual life coach, and also a data scientist in the field of artificial intelligence. I started my ministry, ForgiveWell, with a mission to transform the Church and the world, one forgiver at a time, so that we can all live with inner peace and happiness.
Unforgiveness manifests in the Church in both obvious and subtle ways. According to a 2019 research study by the Barna Group, 1 in 4 practicing Christians struggles to forgive some one. This would mean that at least one fourth of your congregation is likely in spiritual bondage to unforgiveness, bitterness, and resentment. We all know people who struggle greatly with unforgiveness, unable to free themselves from the pain of long past hurts and injustices. Years, even decades, of attempting to repress it have taken a serious toll on their physical health as well as their soul. We also have seen Christian leaders who have unfortunately allowed unforgiveness from the past to negatively affect their ministries in the present. Some of these people may even be ourselves.
I wrote my book to effectively address these deep pervasive problems. It can be an invaluable resource for your congregation to transform their hearts and help them walk more deeply in the freedom of forgiveness. Let me explain how this unique book can accomplish such a goal.
Seven Important Book Features
It is one-of-a-kind, unlike any other forgiveness book on the market. The book is full of original innovative ideas that take readers on an emotional journey, exploring the depths of their hearts. It exposes the Acceptance Conundrum, a common block to forgiveness which often keeps people stuck, struggling, unable to accept the unacceptable.
This book invites readers to be aware of their immediate experience in reading it. It uses carefully crafted reflection questions and exercises to interact with readers, guiding them along on a heart-felt path towards greater self-insight.
It combines knowledge from many diverse sources including: Christian spirituality, theology, clinical psychology, psycho-linguistics, and brain science. This approach has resulted in a seamless integration of insights with extraordinary depth and dimensionality. It explains how the precise language you use to think about forgiveness in your mind affects how deeply you actually forgive in your heart.
This material has proven to be extremely practical and impactful. It has produced dramatic forgiveness breakthroughs, quickly healing deep hurts and long estranged relationships. Many have experienced it as a life-changing revelation.
This book was written to be easily accessible to a wide audience. It tries hard to convey sophisticated concepts in the clearest simplest manner possible.
The book was intentionally crafted in a concise manner, making it easy for readers to re-read multiple times in order to absorb the most gain from its therapeutic effects. It contains absolutely no unnecessary or filler text.
Small Group Ready
This book contains a study guide designed for small group studies. Forgiveness is the central theme of the Gospel that should be deepened with greater community attention and focus.
What Other Pastors Are Saying
“As someone who has taught about forgiveness many times, Dr. Allen gave me tools I’ve never considered to the point that I took several moments to freshly forgive several people. If you feel stuck in moving on from ways you’ve been hurt, or if you teach others how to forgive, I’m confident you’ll find fresh ways forward here.”
Executive Director of Blue Ocean Faith
Founding Pastor of Reservoir Church in Cambridge, MA
Author of Not the Religious Type: Confessions of a Turncoat Atheist
“Forgiveness, a multifaceted task that affects the very foundations of our wellness as people. The ability to forgive is not just a simple and easy exercise in saying the words, ‘I forgive.’ In his book, Dr. Allen shows us the words we use are integral to our core ability to accomplish forgiveness and be free from the chains of unforgiveness. I highly recommend that you enter into this exploration of forgiveness and learn how to address the most important aspects to yourself and finally be free of the affliction of long term offense and unforgiveness. I used his book as a study to lead myself and others into the freedom of absolute forgiveness.”
Mark Van Dyke
Executive Pastor of University Vineyard Church
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